Sunday, November 1, 2009

Halloween 9-1-1 (really)

We should have known it was going to be a crazy day when the morning started off with a "THUD", me running into Abigail's room to find her flat on her back, crying, outside of her crib. How exactly she fell out is still a mystery.


Fast forward to 4:30. Tyler has been gone since 7:30 AM at a scout training and is due home in 1 1/2 hours. I am busy getting ready for our ward Trunk or Treat. Abigail is busy next to me, standing on a chair, emptying drawers, a favorite pasttime. I hear another THUD, I look and Abigail is flat on her back, haven fallen from the chair, screaming.


I pick her up, but she is crying so hysterically, no sounds are coming from her wide open mouth. Suddenly she is limp and unresponsive. I grab my phone and try dialing 9-1-1. It takes 2 tries. I am crying hysterically, Abigail is still limp in my arms. The operator answers and somewhere in giving my address and name Abigail begins to scream. I notice there is blood above her right eye. It is later that I notice the meat pounder on the ground and realize she must have been holding that when she fell, thus the small gash above her eye.


The 9-1-1 operator stays on the phone with me and screaming Abigail, until the fire truck shows up. In the few seconds between hanging up with the operator and welcoming the firemen inside I frantically call Tyler, still at his training (he amazingly picks up--something he rarely can do while gone at trainings) and tell him to leave right away and come home, the ambulance is at our house for Abigail. That is all I have time to say before the firemen arrive at my door. They are the emergency response team. The police later join in, and within minutes, the ambulance and EMT's arrive. Abigail is still screaming the whole time, a good sign they all say. They check everything they need to check and assure me she is going to be fine. Everyone is super nice the whole time. The kids outside, all dressed up for Halloween, are going crazy over having a firetruck in their neighborhood.


It is decided that Abigail needs to be taken to the ER since she was unconscious for a bit. I opt out of the ambulance ride and say I'll take her myself. I sign the waiver forms, call Tyler, and begin the search for my insurance card I realize isn't in my wallet. I say a prayer. I find the cards hidden with 100's of Tyler's business contacts---a favorite of Abigail's to play with. Prayer definitely works! I head over to the ER. with a screaming baby girl. I meet up with Tyler.


In the ER we are told she needs to have a CAT scan, as a precaution, because she was unconscious, even though it was for so short a time. It takes 3 nurses and Tyler to hold Abigail down in order to insert the IV that would be used to sedate Abigail long enough for the CAT scan. I sit crying and sobbing in the corner of the room. This is by far the hardest part of the night for me. We eventually take Abigail into the room where the CAT scan will take place. She is now so frightened of anyone not her mother or father, she is almost non-stop crying and screaming, especially when anyone mildly approaches her. They hook her up, they get the IV started with the medicine to sedate her, and once out, we are asked to leave.


Tyler and I wait outside while the scan takes place. When we come back in Abigail looks peaceful for the first time in hours. There she is, lying helpless, but sleeping on the table. While asleep the doctor decides to clean her cut and realizes she needs to have it glued shut. We are transferred to another room where the nurse keeps track of her vital signs and 30 minutes later Abigail comes to. The scan comes back & there is nothing to be concerned about. We are thankful. We sign everything we need to sign and make it home. Abigail finally stops crying once we give her some Halloween candy.


And that is our Halloween night. Hopefully never to be repeated (but have been assured by several that this is only the first of many). And, I realize I have made this a bit more of a traumatic post than it all probably was, but-- it was pretty traumatic at times.

(Here is our Halloween Ballerina peacefully sleeping while sedated. Good thing her tutu is a size 24 months & can be used next year).

17 comments:

Carrie said...

Oh we're so glad Abigail's okay. Kids live to give their parents a heart attack every now and then. I remember when Nicholas fell of the dryer onto the cement floor when he was three months old and I thought I'd pass out from the fear. But kids are resilient beyond belief. We're glad you're okay and don't worry, you'll have plenty more Halloweens to celebrate. We love you!!

Mandy said...

Wow Rachael! I would have freaked out as well. I am glad she is ok. Hopefully today was more restful for you. Brayden fell down our entire flight of stairs awhile back and I about had a heart attack but he was ok. Goodness :) Love to see all the updates!

Karen said...

Rachael-I could not help but well up in tears as I read this post. I, like you would have been the same way. You did great though!! I am so glad that Abigail is ok. That's definitely a Halloween you'll never forget! I dread the day I have to call 911. scary!!

Camille said...

I was totally crying too! Just being in a hospital for children makes me so sad, whether they'll be fine or not. It's just so traumatic!

Sounds like you are all champs in emergency situations. For some reason I always think I would call my mom or a sister before calling 911. I'll try to remember your example in that situation.

S+S said...

Poor girl! Poor mom! What a miserable Halloween. Glad to hear she's OK.

jamie @ [kreyv] said...

Oh, Rachael...that is so traumatic. I'm so sorry, but super glad everything is okay again!

Kim said...

I'm not even a mother and I started to tear up. I'm glad you guys are all okay.

Lacey said...

Rachel I had tears running down my cheeks as I read this! Just cause I would have been so terrified! You are such a good Mom doing all the right things...sorry about your crazy halloween night! Give that little cutie a hug for me!

Ariel said...

Holy cow, that is quite a Halloween story. I am so glad that Abigail is all right. The good part is that she is so small she won't remember any of this. (This is how I comfort myself while Charlotte gets her shots.)

It was so much fun to see you guys last week and hope you had a good trip back. We will look forward to seeing A. in her little tutu next year!

Cami said...

Rach, that is so scary. I'm glad she is okay. You are superwoman.

Mary Pugh said...

Ah I am totally crying reading this! That must have been so so scary! I can't even imagine. The powers that be must know that i couldn't handle that. You must be so tough! Ah, I am just so glad that she is okay. What a traumatic day!

Derek and Becca Theurer said...

Very scary. That picture of Abigail lying there on the table made me sick to me stomach. I definitely don't like seeing her with needles in her body. I'm glad she's okay.

Tyler and Rachael said...

Thanks for all of your comments and well wishes. Abigail took her day to recover yesterday and is back up to normal speed today--smiling, laughing, giggling, running, playing her day away. We spent 2 hours at the park today and she was in little girl heaven. Thanks!

Liz said...

Wow, that's crazy! I marvel that Alex has made it to nearly 3 without a trip to the ER. I shouldn't say that out loud! I am glad it all turned out. I can tell you from our experience with getting an IV in for Alex's surgery that it is the hardest part, I sobbed just as much as he did. It's hard to see your baby struggle...glad it all turned out okay.

Jonathan and Rachel said...

So sad ... very similar to our Halloween ... hopefully I will get to post it soon - so glad she's okay - we have too been reminded that the Lord hears and answers our prayers! HUGS!

Jenny said...

Rachel, so so scary & such a sad picture of cute little Abigail, but yet it sounds like you did an amazing job as a mother in that moment and I'm so glad everything turned out okay! Luckily, she's so little and won't remember it and luckily kids bounce back so quickly. I'm glad everything is better! Hopefully you'll have a better Thanksgiving than Halloween! :) Keep smiling!

Karina & John Calderwood said...

So, I jumped from Becca's blog to your blog to see how your little cutie was doing and tears welled up and I had my hand over my mouth the whole time reading this post. You handled it great!!! I can't imagine and I would have been sitting in a corner balling my eyes out to have to watch my daughter go through something like that. I am so glad that she is OK.